Wedding Invitations with Basic Invite


Wedding planning is special, but it can also be quite stressful. We’ve heard time and again that deciding on, and inviting guests is one of the top stressors. There are no general, one-size-fits-all answers to help with this; each family must draw their own conclusions. However, two ways you can facilitate this process are: discerning your wedding priorities, and investing in a fun, hassle-free way to set the tone for your wedding.

In order to help you, we put on our bridal detective shoes, and went through the full experience at Basic Invite. Here is what we loved:

Free address collection and addressed envelopes!

As a bride who self-addressed each invitation, I can’t tell you how valuable this is! Once you input your addresses, the envelopes arrive on your doorstep with the addresses already beautifully inscribed… for free!

Unique products

While browsing the site, we couldn’t help but fall in love with a wedding invitation unlike any other we’ve encountered – seal and send invitations. The old-fashioned concept behind these invitations resonates with our sentimental hearts! The R.S.V.P. card, directions, invitation- everything- magically fit in one attractive, compact invitation.

Total customization

There are so many color options- down to small variations in hue- with Basic Invite. Even the envelopes come in 40 different colors! Once you select a design you can change the color of each element on the card to over 180 different color options. Your wedding colors are sure to be represented in their vast selection! Futhermore, when you browse items, the website will show you all the coordinating options that will compliment your choice- from envelope bands to unique favors such as personalized coasters.

Free, matching wedding websites

We love how Basic Invite helps you create such a cohesive first impression for your guests! They offer free wedding websites that you can customize to match your invitations! Your paper suite, and website are the first impressions your guests will have of your wedding, and Basic Invite provides all the tools you need for a cohesive, accurate expression of your wedding.

Our thoughts

We ordered a range of products to see exactly how their products rate in person- they did not disappoint! The paper is beautifully weighted, high quality, and their colors are true-to-life. One item we simply had to see in person was their sailing themed save the dates. If you didn’t already know, Persuasion Photography is partially named for Jane Austen’s “Persuasion,” which involves many coastal and nautical themes. We simply had to find indulge in our nerdier side, and play with the idea of what the characters’ wedding would look like in modern day, and we thoroughly believe their celebration would involve nautical homage and sailing into the sunset. Their sailing themed save the date fits our visions perfectly! (To see more of this romantic, seaside cliff session that we featured on the card, click here).

In conclusion, we loved the whole experience that Basic Invite has to offer, and feel that they are a great tool for a well-curated, fun, stress free vendor to add to your wedding team.

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Interview with Wedding Coordinator: Emma Cockerham

Today, we’re thrilled to introduce you to the lovely face behind Infinity Events– one of the best event coordinators/ wedding planners in Memphis! Based on all the engagement announcements we’re seeing on social media, the timing for you to meet Emma Cockerham is perfect. In the past, we’ve interviewed other vendors (floral designers, hair stylists, and makeup artists). We want to help you get to know some of the professionals in the Memphis wedding industry.

Memphis wedding coordinator, Infinity Events.
How did you become a Wedding Planner?

After graduating from University of Memphis with a Business and Marketing degree, I began working in the hospitality industry. I started at a front desk and soon moved through the Sales & Catering department working in Guest Services and then in Corporate Event Planning. My husband and I had started a Supper Club with some of our friends from college in order to make a point to get together about once a month. Through this group, we got to know a newly engaged couple very well and would talk about their journey through wedding planning. After many conversations about vendors, colors and themes, this couple asked me why I didn’t plan weddings. I told them all of the reasons why I hadn’t attempted to start a business, but, after a while, I admitted that being my own boss and planning weddings would be my dream career choice. Their persistence and faith in me is how Infinity Events began. We are still very close friends (even our 1 year olds have play dates together), and I owe them everything for pushing me towards accomplishing my dream.

How long have you been a Wedding Planner, and what kinds of training/ certification/ career highlights have you had?

Since it’s conception 3.5 years ago, Infinity Events has grown significantly. I hired Mandy Martin as my assistant about two years ago, and she has since been taking on her own couples as well. She and I both became Certified Wedding Planners in August of 2018 through The Bridal Society;

What’s the hardest part of your job?

It’s funny when someone asks me this. I go through in my head the challenges that we face day to day, and try to pin-point the hardest part. The reality is that working in wedding planning can be super stressful, but when you find your passion in life, is it really work? I love what I do, and even when I face challenges, I come out the other side exhilarated and full of joy. With that being said, and to answer your question, I think that the hardest part is being able to shift through a couple’s vision and be able to give them their dream. Learning to work within parental and budgetary constraints while doing this is a challenge with every couple. In the end, it is worth the heartache to help them create magic!  

What’s the best part of your job?

Honestly, I don’t think I could give just one! I have three! First, I love the relationships that I have the opportunity to build with my couples. We consider that a HUGE part of the Infinity Events client experience because we don’t see clients as just clients, they become our friends. I am always so bummed after the wedding is over because we won’t get to hang out quite as much! Second, literally there is nothing better than when your vision and hard work comes to life on the day of the wedding. I get so excited and emotional when it looks the way I hoped it would, and I love to love on my vendors for making it happen for the couple! Third, we love love! The planners and coordinators who work with Infinity Events all have this in common. It is an honor and a privilege to be a part of each and every love story. It is a weird wedding that I don’t get teary-eyed at least once because I get to be a witness to so much ooey-gooey, perfect love!

Inspiration source(s) (art, nature, public figures etc)?

First and foremost, my husband’s undying support of me and my following my dream is a huge motivation and inspiration every single day. He is my partner in life and a wonderful daddy to our son. Secondly, my mother coordinated my wedding, as well as helped me plan the whole thing. It was a beautiful day and so many of the principles that Infinity Events is based on stemmed from her and how she made it perfect for me. In the thick of things however, my inspiration definitely comes from the hearts of my couples. I love that with each new couple comes a new vision, personality and love story. It makes every project new and fun!

Bridal tip to avoid looking dated in 10 years?

Instead of only thinking trendy or budget-friendly, instead shift your paradigm to individuality. If there are touches or details within your wedding that make guests say, “only they would do that,” then you’ve won! Something that is a depiction of your personality as a couple is never wrong. In 10 years, if you’re no longer into that, it’s a memory of how the two of you were when you tied the knot, rather than trends that are out of style.

Most common wedding day mistake you encounter?

RSVP management is something that I believe is overlooked and undervalued so often. The couple then ends up over-paying or severely under-providing for their guests. Don’t worry! In 2/3 of our packages, we help you by taking your RSVP management off your plate!

Pro advice for wedding day?

At the very least, hire a professional Coordinator! Our job on the day of the wedding, besides vendor and timeline management, is to find the fires and put them out before they ever reach the client’s ears or affect anything about the wedding. If it isn’t your coordinator, it will almost always get to the couple and stress them out. Our goal is for our couples to have a stress-free wedding day that they will actually remember. We strive to make every client’s wedding day experience timeless, memorable and infinite.

Favorite current trend for brides?

I am so digging the geometric shapes for wedding décor. I love seeing the creative ways folks are using this trend, and am so not ready for it to go out of style!

What is your dream assignment?

My dream assignment would be to fully plan an entire wedding weekend without strict budgetary constraints. I would love to have the opportunity to be 100% creative and put into reality a dreamy weekend escape for the couple and their guests!

What is your own dream wedding/ renewal?

I would LOVE to have a vow renewal with my husband knowing what I do now! There are so many incredible venues and vendors that would make this event so dreamy, but some details I wouldn’t spare on the expense this time around are: swoon-worthy flowers, an incredible DJ, fabulous food presentation and full place settings.

Beach or mountains?

Beach all the way!

Movies or books?

Honestly, I go through phases. But there is nothing better than getting lost in a good book.

Cookie or cupcake?

Cupcake! Muddy’s… please and thank you!

Hogwarts house?

Always ☺ I would love for a potter fan to allow me to plan a HP wedding! Trust me, we will help you keep it classy and still make it EPIC!

Memphis wedding coordinator Emma Cockerham of Infinity Events.

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All About Tuxedos: James M. Williams Sartorial

Whether you’re a groom, or shopping for the groom, it’s important to know all about the classic tuxedo. For this topic, we’re excited to introduce a guest in the house- James Williams Sartorial! Hot on the heels of our blog series for grooms (see here for the first installment), we’re honored to host an expert in men’s fashion. Not only does Mr. Williams give you all the necessary advice for dressing like James Bond, he provides insight into the history of the pieces that make our Downton Abbey loving hearts go pitter-patter! Without further ado, we are pleased to present, James M. Williams Sartorial:

The Classic Tuxedo

Tuxedo coat (Dinner Jacket) by James M Williams Sartorial Nashville, TN

The history of the tuxedo date back to 1860s London. At the time, the Prince of Wales (future King Edward VII) wanted a slightly modified garment -one that was shorter, without a tail, to be worn at informal dinners. His tailor cut the garment that became a royal evening coat known as the dinner jacket.

The tuxedo has become a pillar of sartorial elegance lasting well over 100 years. There are subtle details that can be adjusted to preference, though the goal remains “understated simplicity.” A Vest or Waistcoat is an optional piece and could complete an elegant 3-piece ensemble.

Details: Hidden button placket (Shirt) Shawl lapel (Coat) by James M. Williams Sartorial Nashville, TN

The Fit of the tuxedo is of top importance. An inexpensive tuxedo can be tailored well, and may evoke the appearance of an expensive garment. It should be tailored to fit in the chest and stomach. Taped sleeves can also reveal a striking silhouette. The coat sleeves should fall at the wrist bone while the Dinner Shirt sleeves should land a ½ inch or ¾ inch lower — near to the base of the thumb. A good way to tell if a Coat & Shirt fit well is how this area sits. There is personal preference as to how much is shown as some prefer slight visibility of their cufflinks.

Details: ½ inch Satin sleeve splicing ¼ inch shirt cuff visibility Functional buttonholes by James M. Williams Nashville, TN

Tuxedo pants are characterized by having a Satin stripe along the outseam. Subtle variations and personal style options for pants could include: pleats, satin waistband, side pull tabs or side adjustment buttons, bottom cuffs.

The Dinner Shirt pairs with your tuxedo and is different from a standard suit shirt. It may have classic or modern variations. A classic dinner shirt may have a wing-tip collar, front-bib, accordion pleats, French cuffs, and holes for shirt studs. Modern dinner shirts may forgo the studs and accordion pleats while opting for a small spread collar and fashionable colored buttons. (above)

Calvin Klein Black patent leather oxfords by James M. Williams Nashville, TN

The classic shoe for a tuxedo ensemble is a black whole cut Oxford in patent leather. Some gentleman opt for patent leather Loafers or velvet Loafers.

The Bow Tie is the classic and traditional neckwear for the tuxedo. It is usually crafted in either a black Satin or Grosgrain fabric.

Some gents do however, opt for a long black necktie and that is totally okay.

The finishing touch on a Tuxedo is the addition of the Pocket Square. A variety of folds are chosen such as: the square fold (above), three stairs, puff, or a single  point fold.

Written for Persuasion Photography
by James M Williams Sartorial
Nashville, Tennessee
Copyright © 2018

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How to Pick the Right Engagement Ring

In case you didn’t know, ‘tis the season for mistletoe, the romantic glow of a Christmas tree… and engagements galore! It really is the most wonderful time of the year- unless you are stressed over how to pick the right engagement ring! Yes, gentlemen, this one’s for you (ladies, send him a link and a hint!). Not only are you asking the biggest question of your life, you have to worry about making a permanent fashion choice for your loved one- and trying to keep it a secret. Fear not, we’ve gathered some inspiration from Blue Nile with a guide on how to pick the right engagement ring.

Here is Blue Niles’s questionnaire, and our favorite tips on how to pick the right engagement ring:

1. Ask her mom or bestie.

When looking for the right engagement ring, it’s probably easiest to go directly to someone who knows her best. Does she tell everything to her mom, sister, or best friend? There’s a good chance she’s been sharing her ring dreams with her closest confidants, and they’ll be a bountiful source of information for you.

2. Look at the jewelry she already has.

Either take note of the pieces she wears most often, or peek at her jewelry box. Does she choose yellow gold, rose gold, or silver tones? Does she prefer simple, ornate, modern, or vintage looks? A sure way to gain insight into her taste it to browse her Pinterest boards– let’s be real, every lady has one!

3. Trace the perfect fit.

Once you feel comfortable about her taste and style, how do you choose the right ring size without giving away your secret? One of our favorite tips is to trace a ring she already has. Bring this paper on your shopping trip to insure a good fit.

4. Know the 4Cs

When it comes to finding the right diamond, you’ll need to brush up on the 4 Cs: color, cut, clarity, and carat. Below is a wonderful guide here that will equip you for your trip to the jeweler! You may wish to discuss these criteria with your “spy” from tip number one to see which of the Cs is most important to her.

Bonus Tip:

Proposal stories are so much fun to tell! However, it’s even more fun when you have images that bring the memories to life! You may plan the most gorgeous proposal in the world, and find her dream ring- but in the end, you know she’ll want to share pictures! Consider bringing another secret accomplice into the proposal: a professional photographer. We’re skilled at discretion, and capturing important moments without interfering. Hiring a photographer will just elevate the proposal experience even more- and help both of you reflect and recall the event more clearly.


Gentlemen, if you enjoyed reading a post specifically tailored to your needs, be sure to check out some highlights from our series specifically for grooms: Things He Should Know, Groom’s Emergency Kit, and All About the Classic Tuxedo.

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A Surprise Vow Renewal in the Country

We were recently blessed by participating in a very important vow renewal. Once we heard the story behind this occasion, we immediately began praying for his job.  When we learned that we’d be documenting Gina and Phil’s vow renewal, we were ecstatic! Not only were the Little Rock, AR, couple celebrating their anniversary… it was a surprise for Gina!  Her wonderful husband, family, and friends planned the ultimate anniversary surprise for their beloved lady.

Not only was this an anniversary gift from Phil to his forever bride, it was a celebration for Gina and her victories. Since May, she has been battling a very rare form of cancer. This was the perfect opportunity to lavish Gina with the love, support, and joy she deserved.

Phil enlisted family, and friends to create this memory. One of their friends, a former event coordinator, sourced vendors, and donated her home as a venue. Her beautifully renovated barn was the ideal space for this occasion. Many loving hands collaborated on the charming decorations and homemade touches.


It was a joy to see all the talent that showed up to honor Gina! We met Wallace Videography through the course of the day, and enjoyed the delicious catering from The Pasta Grill.

If you read this post about our purpose and mission, you’ll see that we deeply believe in using our passion to bless others, show Christ’s love, and contribute to the strengthening of relationships and families. Being part of Gina and Phil’s touching vow renewal was an absolute dream come true for us!


Please join us in keeping the Flake family in your prayers, their battle is ongoing.

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How to Choose Your Groomsmen

Today concludes our series for gentlemen; we’re discussing how to choose your groomsmen. If you read about the problems many grooms encounter (here), you’ll remember that some of these issues can be avoided altogether by being intentional when choosing with whom to stand at your wedding. Brides receive tons of helpful advice about selecting bridesmaids- but again, you gents tend to fall by the wayside.

First, take a look at this guide for forming a practical guest list- it also doubles as a great starting point for how to choose your groomsmen. Of course, discuss bridal party numbers with your fiancé before making any hard and fast decisions; however, ask any coordinator and they’ll confirm that your numbers don’t have to match (In fact, at our own wedding, he had more groomsmen than I had bridesmaids- take a wild guess which of us is the extrovert).  With these conditions in mind, proceed with these following tips in mind:


Is He Responsible?

First and foremost, can he handle the duties and expectations of being a groomsman? Not sure what those are? The Man Registry gives us an excellent picture of what the role of groomsman entails. Your wedding is a celebration- but it’s not a frat party; if your friend is prone to reliving his youth when there’s a free bar, then perhaps he (and everyone else in the bridal party) will enjoy himself more as a guest.

Most of all, even if he parties hard or is a prankster… can he be organized? We cannot emphasize this strongly enough- weddings require organization! Is he trustworthy with schedules, errands, money, planning meetings or parties, keeping taps on your emergency kit cleaning up after himself, business before play, and keeping you on task rather than the other way around.

Is He a Team Player?

How does he respond to authority or being “bossed around” by people he doesn’t know? Coordinators, family members, and photographers will all have requests and demands. How does he work with others to accomplish goals? Knowing how to choose your groomsmen isn’t so different from choosing fellow players in sports or colleagues for a project. Teamwork will be required for everything from dressing on the big day, to hauling heavy gifts or chairs- there’s no place for alpha dogs or slackers on the groom’s team!

Is He a Willing to Work Hard?

Like we mentioned above, there’s plenty of hard work involved in the duties of groomsman. Often, they act as taxis for out of town guests, lug wedding gifts, run all the errands, beast of burden for various items, plan and execute parties, clean up after celebrations… there are endless possibilities. Physical, mental, and social stamina are important qualities to look for in a your crew.

Is it Practical for Him?

Finally, this one is all about being considerate of your friend. Can he afford the expenses involved? There are costs such as: tux rental/ purchase, travel, accommodation, food, parties, gifts, and grooming (haircuts, shaves, etc). Beside the financial issue, is he able to commit to attendance? If he lives across the country, is expecting a baby on your wedding day, or is already stressed, think long and hard about whether or not you’re serving your friend well by making this request.

If, after consideration and discussion with your bride, the answer is “no,” see this post about honoring friends and family at your wedding, include him in your bachelor party, or give him another honorary role such as ceremony reader, usher, or spend extra time with him at an after party. Being intentional not only makes your life easier, it also, ultimately, is kinder to your friend.

We hope you found this helpful, and would love to hear your thoughts on how you’ll choose your groomsmen.

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Things the Groom and Groomsmen Should Know for the Wedding

Welcome to day four of Gents’ Week at Persuasion(get caught up: groom’s emergency kit here, male perspective on First Look here, and tie skills here))! Today we’re addressing  important things the groom and groomsmen should know for the wedding day. One of the biggest sources of wedding day frustration seems to be- dare I say it- the groom and groomsmen.  Gentlemen, you are not at fault; you likely feel as though you’ve been abandoned on an alien planet full of hostiles, with no map or guide whatsoever. Preparation and planning is largely geared toward the bride, leaving most men in relative darkness about their own wedding. Not only is this approach rather insulting to the groom, it also sets the gentlemen up for logistical failure. Due to lack of knowledge, plans go awry- which causes stress, frustration, and even anger for everyone involved.  Fear not, we want to equip you for success!  here are the most common problems we see at most weddings- the great news is that these issues are 99% preventable! Here are things the groom and his groomsmen should know for the wedding day.


1.Act Like an Adult

This may sound harsh, and seem obvious- but it is the number one issue professionals, bridesmaids, brides, family members, and guests alike observe in groomsmen. Remember, you are making a huge life decision and taking on one of the biggest responsibilities of your life today- don’t trample the importance of the occasion by reliving your youth with your friends. Dedicate a separate time specifically for that purpose – not on your wedding day or the day before. (For more on this, see here about choosing your groomsmen).

2. Take Responsibility Seriously

Know exactly when you need to be where, what to wear at each location, and transportation logistics involved. Plan backward to give yourself enough time- similar to boarding a plane, give yourself more time than you possibly need. During downtime, don’t spend it drinking, or meandering. The group needs to stay together because much time is wasted in pursuit of stray groomsmen.

Pay strict attention at the rehearsal- you are responsible for knowing every piece of information given that evening, as it directly relates to your role in the wedding. If you are unclear about something, ask! Ask again- and again, if necessary. It’s probably not your fault if you don’t know something, but is definitely your responsibility to get answers.

3.Hire a Coordinator

The biggest lifesaver is hiring a wedding coordinator! He or she and their team will make sure all the timeline logistics are met, that each of you has/ knows the timeline, and that lack of knowledge on your part doesn’t impose on someone else’s wedding duties or experience. Treat your family and friends with due respect- don’t make them your gopher to find out what’s going on… that is part of what a wedding coordinator covers.

4.Elevate Your Tux Game

One of the most crucial things the groom and groomsmen should know for the wedding day is, Do NOT pick up suits/ tuxes the day of the wedding! Doing so destroys timelines, scatters people, and if a mistake has been made- frankly, you’re SOL.

Also, know how to style your attire. Discuss in advance what kind of knot your tie needs, how to fold a pocket square, where to place it, how to put on your bouttonniere, where is goes, and be sure to have a stash of bouttonniere pins on hand because there are never enough.

5.Agree on Cigars, etc, in Advance

Confer with your bride and coordinator what is the best time for you to enjoy a celebratory cigar or scotch. Generally, it should never be immediately before or after the ceremony (it ruins logistics, risks impairment, and leaves you smelling dreadful). Formal portraits also take place during this time and it is unfair to leave an entire group waiting for you to reappear.

*Bonus Tip:

When it’s time for pictures, please just leave your drinks behind. We always lose precious time trying to move, hide, and pry away cups and cans. Leave them where they are, come do pictures for a few designated minutes, then return to your libations.

We hope you feel a little more empowered, and confident with things the groom and groomsmen should know for the wedding day!

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What to Pack: A Groom’s Emergency Kit for the Wedding Day

Despite popular belief, there is actually a lot that the groom and groomsmen have to do on the wedding day. Your regular duties are compounded by fact that you will be faced with the daunting task of knowing how to properly dress in your formal attire: from making sure you all have bouttonniere pins, to knowing the different between a Half Windsor, and Grantchester Knot and which one you’re supposed to wear (for help with tie knots, check our basic tutorial here, and this extensive resource here)! With so much on your mind, and too little time to spare, be sure that you come prepared to the wedding day- you need a groom’s emergency kit to help put out the million little fires that arise.

By preparing a groom’s emergency kit, you have a safety net that will put your mind at ease and remove potential stressors. Be sure delegate it to the most reliable of your groomsmen- your mom has enough on her plate (this simple, thoughtful gesture of letting your mother enjoy herself is one of many ways to honor your family on your wedding day. Click here for more ideas about that). Similar to a bride’s emergency kit, here is a list of no-fail items that never cease to be in demand on a wedding day.

Groom’s Emergency Kit List:

Water bottles

Granola/ Protein Bars (like Cliff or Kind bars)

Nuts (unsalted to prevent puffy faces in portraits- and swollen hands that might make your new ring uncomfortable)

Jerky/ meat sticks

High energy fruit such as apples, oranges, or dried apricots

Tylenol/ Advil

Non-drowsy allergy meds

Tissues (for all those happy tears- or more realistically, for sweat and allergies)

Blister Band- aids

White chalk (It covers a multitude of sins on white fabric)

Stain wipe/ pen

Sewing kit (Even if you don’t know how to sew, someone’s relative or date will be able to help)

Superglue (From abrasions to broken shoe soles, this has you covered)

Safety Pins

Duct tape (In a pinch, it’s great for hemming pants)

Mounting hook (in case you run out of places to hang clothing/ bags)

Blotting tissues (a necessity for sweltering summer days in a three piece suit!)


Colgate Whisps and floss

Boutonniere pins… because no one can ever find them!

Two extra pairs of black dress socks- someone always forgets.

At least 6 lint rollers (if someone is still in need, the duct tape mentioned above is also a great substitute)

No less than three copies of the timeline with detailed instructions of exactly where to meet and what to wear!

*Bonus tip: While it’s tempting to fill your kit with fun treats like cigars and mini bottles of liquor- don’t! Designate a special time to enjoy these indulgences with your best friends- preferably at a bachelor party, or during your reception. So many avoidable problems arise when alcohol, and jovial spirits come in contact with a  group of men who may or may not be bored and/ or nervous.

You can easily assemble your groom’s emergency kit in an old tool box, a tackle box, or even a backpack. We hope this proves to be a valuable resource that will help you fully enjoy your wedding day!





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An Interview with Memphis Wedding Hair Stylist Emily Cohen

Today, we’d like to introduce one of our favorite Memphis wedding hair stylists, Emily Cohen! Similar to these interviews with a floral designer, and a makeup artist, we’re helping you get to know some of the faces behind the businesses you’ll need in the near future.  We give you these interviews because we believe in serving our couples as comprehensively as possible; as literal wedding pros, we see a unique change to share our resources with you (for example: venue tours, avoiding common hitches in wedding day timelines, sharing ideas on how to honor loved ones at your wedding, and- of course- helping you get to know the vendors in town. Without further ado, we present one of the best Memphis wedding hair stylist, Ms. Emily Cohen (to see some of the beautiful looks she’s given our clients, look here and here)!

Persuasion Photography Memphis wedding hair stylist Emily Cohen

Persuasion Photography Memphis wedding hair stylist Emily Cohen

How did you become a wedding hairstylist?

When I was 19, I started a job as a receptionist at a hair salon, and instantly fell in love with the energy. Making men and women feel their absolute best, boosting confidence, etc. (and making a living doing it!) was something I knew I HAD to be a part of, and discovered wedding hair is the epitome of that. After doing several brides, and seeing everything (dress, hair, makeup, jewelry) come together at the beautiful venues with flowers – the end result – the happiness of the day captured in gorgeous photos, and our hard work as vendors paying off; It pulled on my heart-strings EVERY time and became my obsession. I still have to pinch myself thinking this is my “job”.

How long have you been a wedding hairstylist, and what kinds of training/certification/career highlights have you had?

Hairstylists in the state of Tennessee must complete 1500 hours of school/hands on training, and pass two State Board proctored exams to receive licensure. I enjoyed styling hair in school so much that I started doing weddings for friends right after graduation to get experience. This year marks my 7th year.

What’s the hardest part of your job?

Everyone always asks about the physical aspect, and while my job IS hard on the body, that’s hardly the toughest part. I’d say the hardest part and the best part are one and the same: the emotional and mental energy you put into each and every wedding. As creative and passionate people, your vendors sincerely want for you to be happy. Giving 110% to each bride every weekend is simultaneously the most exhausting AND rewarding thing we do.

What’s the best part of your job?

Knowing I played a part in helping brides feel their absolute best on the best day of their lives!

Inspiration source(s)?

I have stylists I follow on social media that offer practical inspiration: Heather Chapman, specifically, is an INCREDIBLE bridal stylist who’s work I admire. And other local vendors (Katie Allred!, Kelly Ginn, Kasey Acuff, Michael Doyle, Toni Williams, and the list goes ON) just by their ambition and love for their job/craft, are truly an inspiration as well.

Bridal tip to avoid looking dated in 10 years?

Make sure your wedding is a reflection of you as a couple, not just what is trending at the moment.

Most common wedding day mistake you encounter?

In reference to hair specifically, not hiring someone who’s done weddings before. Especially if you have a large bridal party, it is easy to run behind schedule. If hair and makeup run late, then the photographer is put behind schedule, and it’s a snowball effect. The LAST thing you want is for your day to feel rushed and chaotic.

Pro advice for wedding day?

Hire seasoned/reputable vendors! Once we’re hired, responsibilities are delegated, and the “stress” becomes OURS. If you have vendors you know you can trust to go above and beyond, it gives you the best chance at a smooth wedding day.

Favorite current trend for brides?

I’m LOVING that everyone is doing a looser, more “care free” look – not as “fixed”.

What is your dream assignment?

I’m doing my dream job, but I’d like to have more opportunity to do destination weddings! My job plus more travel would be incredible.

What is your own dream wedding/renewal?

Being in the industry has made me have such mixed emotions about this. But the more I’ve thought about it, my dream wedding would be an intimate ceremony; just close family and friends, and I’d pull out all the stops. I’d give my vendor friends free reign to “do their thing”. Creative people do better work when given a general direction, then let loose on a project, and that’s exactly how I know I’d be happiest. Followed by a big “Happily Ever After Party” as I’ve seen it called – an opportunity for everyone to come celebrate with us!

Beach or mountains?


Movies or books?


Cookie or cupcake?


Hogwarts house?

Gryffindor, OBVIOUSLY.

We hope that you’ve enjoyed getting to know a little bit about Emily! If you are in need of a Memphis wedding hair stylist, you should schedule a consultation- or cut/ color because she’s amazing- to get to know her for yourself!

*Bonus trivia…. Emily and I are both women of Alpha Gamm Delta.

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How to Prepare for a Boudoir Session

Last time, we shared what to expect at a boudoir session. Today, we are going to give you the tools you need to know how to prepare for a boudoir session. Being prepared for your session will eliminate much stress from the equation, leaving room for fun. Similar to a bride’s emergency kit, you’ll find, at the bottom, a boudoir beauty list in addition to a timeline with to-dos.


Make sure you’ve signed the contract, and model release! Along with these papers, submit your retainer fee. Without these three things, your session is not reserved and you do not have a boudoir session for which to prepare. Getting these mundane items out of the way leaves you free to enjoy the planning.

At least a month prior:

Write down your vision for session. How do you want to look? What inspiration have you found (e.g. art, something you saw online, a movie, an era, etc)? Put these inspiration sources beside each other on a Pinterest board, or the like, and find a common denominator (for instance, maybe you gravitate toward ethereal images, perhaps you fancy silhouettes, or maybe you like bolder, sexier poses). Share your vision with your photographer so your he/she can structure your photoshoot accordingly.

Bonus tip: you should never expect your photographer to replicate something you’ve seen from another photographer! Each professional has their own signature style, so be sure you’re hiring one with the aesthetic you want.

A month prior:

Shop for your wardrobe. If you can find items in person, try to do this so you are assured of a good fit. If you shop online, allow plenty of time for any necessary returns and exchanges.

Make any necessary appointments for hair care, facials, waxing, etc. (Get to know one of our favorite makeup artists here).

Now is the time to start drinking a surplus of water and eating plenty of fruits and vegetables. Your skin will be glowing by the time your session arrives!

One week prior:

Pamper yourself! Get your hair trimmed and colored, reduce your sodium intake to avoid any swelling, and get plenty of sleep to keep those eyes bright and alluring.

Double check your lingerie fit and have any necessary tailoring or repairs done.

Make sure you pay any balance on your session. Knowing how to prepare for a boudoir session is fruitless if your session is canceled due to lack of payment.

Three-four days prior:

If you are getting waxed, do it now so any redness will have time to subside.

Touch base with your photographer to insure you both are clear on time, place, wardrobe, and any other expectations.

The day prior:

Whether you DIY a manicure and pedicure or hire a professional, we cannot recommend this highly enough! Hands are unavoidable features in our everyday life- but especially in boudoir portraits. Be sure to choose neutral looks such as a French manicure or a nude polish (our go-to favorite is Ballet Slipper by Essie).

The Day of:

Today is all about loving yourself and being pampered, so turn on some music, take your time and view your preparation as something to be enjoyed rather than endured. If you opted out of waxing, give yourself a thorough shave. For glowing skin, do a thorough body scrub, and use plenty of lotion throughout the day. Don’t wear elastic ties on your wrist today! Wear loose clothes that will not leave elastic/ button marks on your body! Wear a top that either zips or buttons up so that you can change clothes without compromising your hairstyle. Speaking of which, be sure to arrive promptly for hair and makeup appointments.

In Your Bag:

Body lotion

Lipstick touchup

Tide stick (or equivalent stain remover for any stray lipstick


Nail polish for any chips


Any special items you want featured (his favorite button down shirt, your favorite book, a vintage

perfume atomizer, etc).

A top layer: cardigan, button down shirt, shawl, silk robe, etc.

2-3 lingerie outfits

Always bring a nude thong to go under any lace or sheer looks.

Always bring a basic, black thong! It’s the little black dress of your boudoir wardrobe.

1-2 pairs of heels

Any desired jewelry

Plenty of water

A playlist of music that brings the energy you want to your session (playful, elegant, sexy, peaceful, etc.

We hope that knowing how to prepare for a boudoir session has been reassuring and helpful. Please reach out to us if you have any questions or want to learn more about our boudoir experience.


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